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No. 01
The Mourner
Grief
Grief · Card 01 of 44

The Mourner

The rule

You may have learned that you move through grief and return to functioning, that mourning too long is something to fix, and that only certain losses count as grief in the first place, a death, obviously, but not a miscarriage, a friendship, a pet, or the life you thought you'd have.

Traditionally echoed in Demeter, who mourned Persephone's descent to the underworld so fiercely the earth went barren, in Isis, who searched Egypt for the scattered body of Osiris and mourned him back to life, and in Brigid, whose keening for her son Ruadán is remembered as the first ever heard in Ireland.

For you

What are you still grieving that you've been told, by others or by yourself, doesn't really count as grief?

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Also in Death, transformation and what’s hidden

This page holds the card’s rule and question. The physical deck and companion booklet go much deeper: the full meaning of The Mourner, a divination meaning, a journal prompt and a somatic practice. About the deck.
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